Hundreds of divorce occur everyday in the U.S. for multiple reasons. The most common causes of divorce are abuse, adultery, extra-marital affairs, financial instability and general cruelty. The aftermath of divorce, can create serious psychological trauma for some people and it can be devastating for an individual if not addressed properly. In this post we will discuss about Divorce recovery and how to overcome psychological trauma post divorce.

Psychological trauma has been a common issue noticed in many individuals and it happens when an event overwhelms, stresses, or scares an individual so much so that it prevents them from fully coping with their emotions and leaves them fearful and emotionally scarred. Post divorce recovery is needed for each individual to overcome emotional and psychological trauma after divorce.

HOW CHRISTIAN MEN ARE RECOVERING FROM DIVORCE

Look , most Christian men made a pledge to God and thought they’d be married forever but unfortunately, when divorce rears its ugly head ,that’s enough to knock a man completely off his path for good.

Most of the time, he’s tossing and turning his head at night .He’s feeling defeated! Like he’s failing not just himself, not just his family, but God.

Meanwhile though, there’s a group of amazing Christian Fathers that are deploying a strategy that allows them to recover from divorce pick up the pieces, rebuild their towering self confidence and be the man their family needs. All while living in total alignment with biblical teachings.

WHY MEN FIND IT HARD TO RECOVER FROM DIVORCE

Most Christian Men feel stuck when dealing with the emotional hurdles of divorce, mostly because they:

• find it hard to be vulnerable.

• find it difficult to move forward without help.

• make life changing decisions, based on fear of being alone.

• They lose confidence.

• Emotional pain from their past resurface.

• Unforgiveness of self and others.

• No guidance for post divorce recovery.

HOW TO ALIGN YOUR MIND, EMOTIONS AND BEHAVIOR TO WHO YOU REALLY ARE

Men lose their identity when the roles they’ve played in life change due to divorce. Our day to day responsibilities change, we are no longer husbands but still have to be the best fathers and men we can be. This can be very difficult when we listen to all the lies concerning how life has to be for you and your family after divorce. Here’s a few areas to begin with when discovering your identity after divorce:

• Start with the truth /End with the truth.

• Where are you at today, emotionally, spiritually and other areas of your life.

• What are the roles that you model.

• who does God say that you are yesterday, today and forever.

• How accepting your identity is the first step to changing your behavior and your life.

OVERCOME EMOTIONAL CHALLENGES SUCH AS FEAR AND UNFORGIVENESS – Post Divorce Recovery

Forgiveness on a mindset level can be achieved with little effort for most. But when faced with familiar adversity, those same emotions are triggered over and over again. We have found that the most effective way to overcome emotional stress and challenges is to deal with them at the spiritual level. We understand that there is a spiritual root to the fruit that you are producing  your life. When you deal with fear and unforgiveness at a spiritual level you are able to overcome it forever.

If you are dealing with emotional challenges associated with divorce and want to regain your confidence and be the role model your family needs ,contact me toady! FILL OUT THE CONTACT BELOW